Hit:--16369 issoj                                                                                                                   issoj Today Is:--Saturday October 19th 2019
(InSeriousSearchOfJobs)
   Sign_Up                                                                                                                               Log_In


  Articles          Information Brokers & Seekers               Risky Jobs             Administrative Jobs         Skill Jobs             Freelance Jobs       Non-Skill Jobs      Sales/Financial Jobs          How It Works          Teaching Jobs          Complaint     Testimonials          Company Biography


Career, Talent & Moral Lifestyles


(LESSON 11):-- Forms Of SELF-CONTROL That Causes More Grief

Posted By:--issoj
Score image
Now, we have come to the forms of SELF-CONTROL which causes more grief than all other forms when combined together. This is “the habit of forming opinions before studying the facts.” We will not analyze this in details here because we will treat it in details while tackling the lesson ahead called “accurate thought.”

But as the case may be, the subject of SELF-CONTROL could not be covered without having at least a kind of passing reference to this common evil to which we are all addicted.

Then, let us throw little light on these forms of SELF-CONTROL:
 Habit Of Forming Opinions Before Studying The Facts:=>

I think it should be to our notice that, no one has the right to form opinions that is not based on that which he believes to be facts, because, this will cause you to catch yourself forming opinions on nothing more substantial than your desire for your personal opinion to be or not to be.

This form of SELF-CONTROL leads to greed and self-centered behavior in dealing with your career or talent. There is another form of self-control which is grievous in nature and this is “SPENDING” habit.

Specifically, should I say, it is the “habit of spending beyond your needs.”

 Habit of Spending beyond Your Needs :=>

From proper examination, this habit has become so common since the close of so-called world war and since then, this habit has become alarming too.

The writer of this article is of the opinion that Nigerians should for-go the habit of spending beyond needs for this could create a poorer country within little scope of time, this is because, we are not a producing country. Children should be thought the habit of saving.

It has become alarming that in every hand, we see people buying automobiles on the installment plan instead of buying homes. Please, avoid mortgaging your future to own cars.

From proper observation, the writer of this article tends to prophesy that not only will this habit grow lean bank accounts, but, if persistency is observed, it will eventually grow babies whose legs will have become transformed into wheels.

This is caused mostly by our quest to live faster than our neighbors which triggers this speed-mad, money-spending attitude in this age which we are living.

This habit has brought an alarming number of employees who are becoming involved with what should be called a “loan shark,” of course, all these grief forms of SELF-CONTROL occurs because we are creatures of imitation as human beings.

We find it hard to resist the temptation to do that, in which we see others doing. If our neighbors buy a Range Rover, we must imitate him and if we cannot hard-buy exactly, we must at least buy a Benz and even borrow banks to accomplish this bad attitude.

The old-fashioned statement known as “raining-day-savings” have now become obsolete in our world today. We live from day to day. Some are proud they buy everything in dollars and pounds, thereby paying a third more for it than it ought to cost, how can one meet-up opportunity that needed little money to carry-on with your career and or talent with this attitude?

I will say that this warning does not apply to you! Or does it?
This is intended only for those binding themselves in the chains of poverty by spending beyond their earning capacity and these types of people tend to not have heard that there are definite laws which must be observed by all who plans to attain success.

NOTE THIS: I know that it requires considerable SELF-CONTROL to use the street taxis as a means of transportation when people all around you are driving automobiles, but this is what you should take note of, that all who exercise this SELF-CONTROL are practically sure to see the day when many who are presently driving cars will either be riding the street cars or walking. Indeed, automobiles are one of the craziest inventions so far.

By last thirty years ago, if a boy wanted a car, he normally fashion this automobile out of wooden boards and had the pleasure of building it himself. Now, if this same boy wanted a car, he cries for it and definitely gets it. This is because, their parents who lacked SELF-CONTROL and are now victim of spending habit have induced this form of “lack of self-control” IN THEIR ONCOMING GENERATION.

The habit of spending beyond our earning is killing us I must lament. I am right by assuming that you are struggling to attain success, for if you are not, you would not be reading this my article from this web-app.

Let me leave you with this little secret, a little savings account will attract many an opportunity to you that would not come your way without it. As a person who exercises SELF-CONTROL, the size of your account does not matter, but the fact that you have established “the savings habit” does.

See you next time!
YOU CAN AS WELL JOIN our community of career job and talent advise, receive newsletter on career jobs, talents and latest job news. Join us here http://www.issoj.com
Sincerely,
Issoj.

DICTIONARY MEANING OF SOME WORDS AND PHRASES USED:

--- Grief: >> (very great sadness, especially at the death of someone)

--- Opinion: >> (a thought or belief about something or someone. The thought that a group of people have)

--- Substantial: >> (large in size, value or importance. Relating to the main or most important thing being considered)

--- Grievous: >> (having very serious effect or causing great pain.)

--- Mortgaging: >> (to borrow money to buy a house, cars etc. all forms of material attractions)

--- Lean: >> (to {cause to} slope in one direction, or to move the top part of the body in a particular direction. To sit or stand with a part of your body touching someone as a support)

Date:--2018-11-21
Current Articles

(LESSON 1):-- How To Harness And Control Your Habit Instead Of Becoming a Slave To It.
(LESSON 2):--- How Our Environment Influences Our Lives Either Negatively Or Positively.
(LESSON 3):--- The Magic Key To Success, What Is This Magic Key?
(LESSON 4):-- The Enemy You Must Conquer Before You Can Become a Person Of ACTION
(LESSON 5):-- FAILURE; a Temporary Defeat, Not a Downfall
2019 Articles

(LESSON 41):-- The Best Way To Handle Your Weaknesses
(LESSON 40):-- How to Find Your Hidden Creative Genius ---- by James Clear
(LESSON 39):-- A Five Minutes Warm-Up For Peak Performance
(LESSON 38):-- When to Hire Help For Your Business
(LESSON 37):-- Twelve Ways to Keep Yourself Charged Up
(LESSON 36):-- Five Signs of a Solid Relationship
(LESSON 35):--- Ways to Tell Whether a Relationship is Positive Or Negative (Generalized).
(LESSON 34):-- PRIDE…. Problems With Pride And How To Overcome Them
(LESSON 33):-- How To Exhibit Courage And Live Without Regrets.
Define Your Purpose:-- (How to figure out what you want in life)
(LESSON 32):-- Is There Any Reason To Embrace Sudden Change In Life?
(LESSON 31):-- The Impact Of (Positive Thinking) On Your Work, And Your Life
(LESSON 30):-- How To Figure Out What To Focus On In Life. (By Experts)
(LESSON 29):-- THE REASON WHY WE WANT THINGS WE DO NOT NEED --- AND HERE IS WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
(LESSON 28):-- The Hidden Danger Of Comparing Yourself To Others
(LESSON 26):-- HOW TO CREATE A SUPPORTIVE AND COMFORTABLE WORK ENVIRONMENT
(LESSON 25):-- HOW TO DROP THE HABIT OF PROCRASTINATION
(LESSON 23):-- HOW YOU CAN HUMBLY ASK YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS
(LESSON 23):-- HOW TO FIX FAILURE AND THE 3 PHASES (stages) IN LIFE AND WORK
(LESSON 22):-- DAILY ROUTINE RECOMMENDED BY EXPERTS FOR PEAK PRODUCTION
(LESSON 21):-- To Be Able To Sustain Your Talent, Then Take The Following Steps:
(LESSON 20):-- Five Enemies Of Perseverance (Staying Power), And How To Eliminate Them.
(LESSON 19): PERSEVERANCE:-- Developing “Staying Power” In Your Career And Or Talent Pursuit.
(LESSON 18):-- What To Do When You Make a Mistake
(LESSON 17):-- PREPARATION: What Happens When You Do, Or Do Not Get Prepared And Six Preparation Principles.
(LESSON 16):-- 8 Ways To Make FOCUS Your Friend
(Lesson 15):--- The Risk Of Having Talent Without Focus
(LESSON 14):--- How To Fire-Up Your Passion, If You Lack The Energy You Desired
(LESSON 13):-- What Do You Think Carries People To The Top Of Their Career And Talent?
(LESSON 12):-- How To Lift Your Talent To Its Highest Level
(LESSON 11):-- What Is The Greatest Obstacle To Success?
(LESSON 10):-- What Does It Take To Be Successful?
(LESSON 9):-- How To Persuade Somebody To Do Something You Want.
(LESSON 8):-- Successful People Are Not Always Talented, Why Is Talent Alone Not Enough?
(LESSON 7):--- The Spirit Of Making Money; How Would You Feel If You Get Rich Today?
(LESSON 6):-- How To Develop The Best That Is In a Person
(LESSON 5):-- FAILURE; a Temporary Defeat, Not a Downfall
(LESSON 4):-- The Enemy You Must Conquer Before You Can Become a Person Of ACTION
(LESSON 3):--- The Magic Key To Success, What Is This Magic Key?
(LESSON 2):--- How Our Environment Influences Our Lives Either Negatively Or Positively.
(LESSON 1):-- How To Harness And Control Your Habit Instead Of Becoming a Slave To It.
2018 Articles

(LESSON 20):-- The Value Of “Reminding Yourself What To Do” (Auto-suggestion) In Achieving Your Career & Or Talent.
(LESSON 19):-- What Are “Suggestions & Auto-suggestions” And How They Affect Your Career And Or Talent
(LESSON 18):-- Summary Of “ACCURATE THOUGHT & DESIRE” And The Principles Involved.
(LESSON 17):-- The “thought” which does more than gather, organize and combine facts
(LESSON 16):--- How To Rise Above The “They Say” Class And Become An Accurate Thinker
(LESSON 15):--- Haters and Critics: How to Deal with People Judging You and Your Work by James Clear
(LESSON 14):-- What Do You Understand By an ATTRACTIVE Personality?
(LESSON 13):-- Poverty, The Richest Experience That Can Come To a Boy.
(LESSON 12):-- BENEFITS OF WORKING MORE THAN PAID FOR
(LESSON 11):-- Forms Of SELF-CONTROL That Causes More Grief
(LESSON 10):--- How To Possess The Quality Of SEFL-CONTROL In Your Career & Talent
(LESSON 9):-- The Six Enemies Which Ride Millions To Failure Without Being Discovered
(LESSON 8):-- How Enthusiasm Will Affect Your Career And Talent
(LESSON 7):-- How To Profit By Imagination
(LESSON 6):-- How Imagination Affects All You Do Towards Attaining Your Definite Chief Aim
(LESSON 5):-- How To Become An Efficient Leader Taking Your Initiative To Great Level By Believing In Yourself.
(LESSON 4):--HOW TO FORM HABIT OF SAVING MORE MONEY
(LESSON 3):-- How Fear From Social Heredity Can Rob-Off Your Talent/Career Job.
(LESSON 2):-- How To Build Self-Confidence In Your Career Job & Talent
(LESSON 1):-- What Is Your Definite Chief Aim? Do You Have a Definite Chief Aim?
 About Us               Contact Us                Terms/Privacy     Complaints               Advertise                Testimonials          How It Works
(c)issoj - 2019 ... Developer: Afridigit

css templates