issoj Today Is:--Wednesday May 22nd 2019


CAREER CONDUCT
(Secrets Of Discovering Your Career And Or Talent, Working Towards It.)
Subscribe Here To Get UpDates

About Kingsley Anyi

Score image
How can one discover his or her DESIRE (CAREER or TALENT) and be able to work towards it for success?
I write on career and talent innovation, a web programmer, writer and weight lifter.
My Story

(LESSON 9):-- How To Persuade Somebody To Do Something You Want.

Posted By:--issoj
Score image


As you know, people are always interested in what they want. Take for instance a fisher man who is-- with the aim of catching more fishes as he is out there beside the river side for this game.

Does he go about baiting a piece of bread with the fishes? No! He tosses worms before the fishes because, he knows that worm are what the fishes needed. So, when he went fishing, he did not bait the hook with piece of bread or ice-cream, rather, he dangled a worm or a small frog in front of the fishes and say: would you not like to have that?

It is not what the fisher man wanted but what the fishes wanted. Is it not necessary to use same common sense when trying to persuade people do what you want?

So, it is necessary to bait the hook to suit the fish. Because, nobody is interested in what you want then, why talk about what you want? I believed it seem childish to do so.

Remember this, the rest of us are just like you: we are interested in what we want. Therefore, if you want to influence people on this earth, the only way to do that is to-- talk about what they want and equally show them how to get it.

Illustrating further with this, assuming you do not want your child to smoke, it is advisable you do not talk about what you want rather show him/her how cigarettes may keep them from performing well in that game of physical activities he or she is always interested in.

This brief story will clear your mind on this for proper understanding:
A writer and his son were trying to get a goat into the barn. Unfortunately for them, they made the mistake of thinking only of what they wanted. (This is taking the goat in the barn)

The writer and his son pushed and pulled, but the goat was just pulling and pushing equally as they were doing. The goat was thinking only of what he wanted; so he stiffened his legs and stubbornly refused to leave the environment in which he stands.

The housemaid who neither is a writer nor educated saw their predicaments because, she had more about this kind of sense than the writer and his son. Immediately, she thought of what the goat wanted; she quickly put her maternal finger inside the mouth of the goat and let the goat suck her finger as she gently led the goat inside the barn.

You see! Every act ever performed by you since you were born was performed because you wanted something. If am not mistaking, how about the time you gave a large contribution to that your organization or church? (It is no exception) yes! You gave this large sum because you wanted to do so from the depth of your heart and you wanted to lend a helping hand right! This act was done out of unselfish and divine act.

Let us assume you had not wanted that feeling more than you wanted your money, would you have make that contribution? Of course, you made the contribution because you wanted something, and that thing is the feeling of satisfaction involved.

Closing this article with the word of Harry A. Overstreeet: “action spring out of what we fundamentally desired ___ and the best piece of advice which can be given to would be persuaders, whether in business, in your career or talent pursuit, in the school, in politics is first: arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.

See you next time!
YOU CAN AS WELL JOIN our community of career and or talent advise, receive newsletter on career and or talent lesson. Join us here http://www.issoj.com
Sincerely,
Issoj.


Date:--2019-01-25

Facebook-share Twitter-share Instagram-share

Better Career/Talent Habits
Behaviour
Motivation
Procrastination

Better Career/Talent Performance
Steady Improvement
Purposeful Practice
Setting Goal
Productivity/Business

Accurate Thinking
Creativity
Making Decision
Focus
Mental Strenght & Toughness

Current Articles


(LESSON 31):-- The Impact Of (Positive Thinking) On Your Work, And Your Life
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 30):-- How To Figure Out What To Focus On In Life. (By Experts)
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 29):-- THE REASON WHY WE WANT THINGS WE DO NOT NEED --- AND HERE IS WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 28):-- The Hidden Danger Of Comparing Yourself To Others
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 26):-- HOW TO CREATE A SUPPORTIVE AND COMFORTABLE WORK ENVIRONMENT
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.



2019 --- Articles Archive


(LESSON 1):-- How To Harness And Control Your Habit Instead Of Becoming a Slave To It.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 2):--- How Our Environment Influences Our Lives Either Negatively Or Positively.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 3):--- The Magic Key To Success, What Is This Magic Key?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 4):-- The Enemy You Must Conquer Before You Can Become a Person Of ACTION
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 5):-- FAILURE; a Temporary Defeat, Not a Downfall
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 6):-- How To Develop The Best That Is In a Person
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 7):--- The Spirit Of Making Money; How Would You Feel If You Get Rich Today?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 8):-- Successful People Are Not Always Talented, Why Is Talent Alone Not Enough?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 9):-- How To Persuade Somebody To Do Something You Want.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 10):-- What Does It Take To Be Successful?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 11):-- What Is The Greatest Obstacle To Success?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 12):-- How To Lift Your Talent To Its Highest Level
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 13):-- What Do You Think Carries People To The Top Of Their Career And Talent?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 14):--- How To Fire-Up Your Passion, If You Lack The Energy You Desired
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(Lesson 15):--- The Risk Of Having Talent Without Focus
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 16):-- 8 Ways To Make FOCUS Your Friend
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 17):-- PREPARATION: What Happens When You Do, Or Do Not Get Prepared And Six Preparation Principles.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 18):-- What To Do When You Make a Mistake
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 19): PERSEVERANCE:-- Developing “Staying Power” In Your Career And Or Talent Pursuit.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 20):-- Five Enemies Of Perseverance (Staying Power), And How To Eliminate Them.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 21):-- To Be Able To Sustain Your Talent, Then Take The Following Steps:
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 22):-- DAILY ROUTINE RECOMMENDED BY EXPERTS FOR PEAK PRODUCTION
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 23):-- HOW TO FIX FAILURE AND THE 3 PHASES (stages) IN LIFE AND WORK
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 23):-- HOW YOU CAN HUMBLY ASK YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 25):-- HOW TO DROP THE HABIT OF PROCRASTINATION
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 26):-- HOW TO CREATE A SUPPORTIVE AND COMFORTABLE WORK ENVIRONMENT
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 28):-- The Hidden Danger Of Comparing Yourself To Others
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 29):-- THE REASON WHY WE WANT THINGS WE DO NOT NEED --- AND HERE IS WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 30):-- How To Figure Out What To Focus On In Life. (By Experts)
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 31):-- The Impact Of (Positive Thinking) On Your Work, And Your Life
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.




2018 --- Articles Archive


(LESSON 1):-- What Is Your Definite Chief Aim? Do You Have a Definite Chief Aim?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 2):-- How To Build Self-Confidence In Your Career Job & Talent
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 3):-- How Fear From Social Heredity Can Rob-Off Your Talent/Career Job.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 4):--HOW TO FORM HABIT OF SAVING MORE MONEY
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 5):-- How To Become An Efficient Leader Taking Your Initiative To Great Level By Believing In Yourself.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 6):-- How Imagination Affects All You Do Towards Attaining Your Definite Chief Aim
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 7):-- How To Profit By Imagination
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 8):-- How Enthusiasm Will Affect Your Career And Talent
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 9):-- The Six Enemies Which Ride Millions To Failure Without Being Discovered
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 10):--- How To Possess The Quality Of SEFL-CONTROL In Your Career & Talent
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 11):-- Forms Of SELF-CONTROL That Causes More Grief
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 12):-- BENEFITS OF WORKING MORE THAN PAID FOR
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 13):-- Poverty, The Richest Experience That Can Come To a Boy.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 14):-- What Do You Understand By an ATTRACTIVE Personality?
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 15):--- Haters and Critics: How to Deal with People Judging You and Your Work by James Clear
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 16):--- How To Rise Above The “They Say” Class And Become An Accurate Thinker
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 17):-- The “thought” which does more than gather, organize and combine facts
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 18):-- Summary Of “ACCURATE THOUGHT & DESIRE” And The Principles Involved.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 19):-- What Are “Suggestions & Auto-suggestions” And How They Affect Your Career And Or Talent
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.


(LESSON 20):-- The Value Of “Reminding Yourself What To Do” (Auto-suggestion) In Achieving Your Career & Or Talent.
Mid-Section: Click And Ckeck-Out National And International Job Opportunities, Study Abroad And Scholarships.



Submit Resume, So That Employers Can Find You Easily.
Direct Job Contacts Request.